Easily changed?

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The story of a husband and wife is a story that may be the same between married couples or there may be differences between them. It depends on how to communicate with the partner. It is said that there is a difference in the situation before and after marriage, I am not sure of the truth because I myself am not married. I wrote about the story of the husband and wife based on the story that was told to me all this time.

It is not the intention of any wife to expose her own husband's shame, only to express her feelings because of the difference in the husband's treatment received by the wife, especially before marriage and after marriage.

Come to think of it, there is logic to what they said, because I am also a man and acknowledge the truth of a man’s attitude before and after marriage. Maybe not everyone behaves that way but it still exists maybe unconsciously.

A man, when he is a lover, whatever his lover wants will be fulfilled immediately. A woman shared a story, at one time the woman lived in Putrajaya while her boyfriend lived in Kuala Lumpur. The distance between Kuala Lumpur and Putrajaya is far, one night, the woman felt hungry, the clock on the wall showed 11.00 pm, the woman told her lover that she was hungry. Less than an hour later, suddenly the woman's lover was in front of the door of the woman's house with a packet of fried rice.

Once married, the situation changed completely, even though the store was only a few meters from the residence. The husband is willing to ask his wife to eat instant noodles instead of going out to the store to buy the food that his wife wants. Supposedly once married, a man is easier to take care of the needs of a woman or wife than before. Many women I know, share similar stories.

Before marriage, there are couples who like to hold each other's hands when going out together when it is forbidden in Islam. When married, some husbands are ashamed to hold their wife’s hand in public. I'm just not sure if that's true ?, maybe it doesn't happen for newly married couples, how about those who have been married for a long time ?. Because of that, I see men abroad are more romantic than local men, especially when it comes to marital relations, right ?.

Before marriage, the male couple, always calls his partner and says hello about his girlfriend’s daily activities that day. Very concerned about the situation of his female partner, but once married, again it becomes the opposite, communication is declining between the couple, causing this situation to invite the occurrence of infidelity between husband and wife. Husband-wife relationship for a society, in my opinion is also influenced by the culture of that society. In this world, no human is perfect, so every married couple must learn to accept the shortcomings of each other.

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